Thursday 25 August 2011

USED VS LOVED


USED VS LOVED



While a man was polishing his new car, his 4 year old son picked stone & scratched lines on the side of the car.

In anger, the man took the child's hand & hit it many times, not realizing he was using a wrench.

At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father....with painful eyes he asked 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?'

Man was so hurt and speechless. He went back to car and kicked it a lot of times. 


Devastated by his own actions...... sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches, child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.

The next day that man committed suicide. . .

Always remember….

Anger and Love have no limits; choose the later to have a beautiful & lovely life....

“people   were  created to  be  loved..
things  were created to be used.
the reason why the world is in chaos,
is because things are being loved,
and people are being used.

Let's be careful to keep this thought in mind:
"Things are to be used, but People are to be loved".


Saturday 13 August 2011

COURAGE




Courage is what happens when your desire to make positive progress is greater than your fear of a negative setback.
Courage is what happens when you look at those fears, listen to them, learn from them, use them to prepare, and then move boldly forward.
Courage is how problems are turned into opportunities.
Courage is why some people are able to move the situation forward though there seems to be no hope.
Courage is when you do what you know is right, even if it is the more difficult and unpopular choice.
Courage is something that builds new strength each time it is exercised.
Courage is not something that you must obtain or struggle to develop.
Courage is a choice that can be yours the moment you decide to use it. When the goal is worthy and filled with meaning, the courage to reach it will be there. When your sense of purpose is strong and clear, your courage will be too.
Courage is indeed a powerful way to live. And you can choose it every time.



Monday 1 August 2011

FRIENDSHIP VS LOVE


Really , there is a huge difference and small gap of understanding that underlies between Friendship & Love. One who Understand this secret , will be a successful one in a true relationship. And its always all about finding a treasure for a peaceful life. Here I am sharing two beautiful poems which compares Friendship and love

TWO GREAT LOVERS


TWO LOVING FRIENDS


FRIENDSHIP VS LOVE

Friendship is a quiet walk in the park with the one you trust.
Love is when you feel like you are the only two around.

Friendship is when they gaze into your eyes and you know they care.
Love is when they gaze into your eyes and it warms your heart.

Friendship is being close even when you are far apart.
Love is when you can still feel their hand on your heart when they are not near.

Friendship is hoping that they experience the very best.
Love is when you bring them the very best.

Friendship occupies your mind.
Love occupies your soul.

Friendship is knowing that you will always try to be there when in need.
Love is when you will give up everything to be at their side.

Friendship is a warm smile in the winter.
Love is a warming touch that sends a pulse through your heart.

Love is a beautiful smile to which nothing compares:
A tender laugh, which opens your heart,
A single touch that melts away your fears,
A smell that reminds you of the tenderness of heaven,
A voice that reminds you of the innocence of youth.


FRIENDSHIP CAN SURVIVE WITHOUT LOVE. 
LOVE CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT FRIENDSHIP.
                         
- Author Unknown


Love is like a water
And life needs a flow

Love has many forms
Love has many names
Relations of the blood,
Hearts & friends

But when it comes to a boy & Girl,
Love and friendship are two different worlds..
Friendship can never be the enemy of love,
But love can be an enemy of friendship..

Love is intense..
Friendship is patience..
Love is “holding on”
Friendship is “letting go”

Love is bound by dreams & expectations..
Friendship is freedom, caring without expectations.

Love gives a meaning to life
Love makes two souls unite
Friendship requires efforts..
It doesn’t happen at first sight

Friendship is so very the essence of life
And love, the relation that gives a purpose to life...
....

-Author Unknown


"One day, love and friendship met. Love asked, Why do you exist when I already exist? Friendship smiled and said,To put a smile where you leave tears.